In a couple of weeks, I will begin a series with my Sunday school class about the book, "unChristian". When I start that class I will add the notes from each class here on the blog.
Today, I just want to share something we discussed Sunday about how we can gauge our Christian journey through the relationships we develop.
I want to paint a picture of the new Christian and the maturing Christian. A new Christian uses a mirror. In the mirror, the new Christian is looking for changes. Everything in the life of a new Christian is about adjusting to a new lifestyle and in a sense a little self absorbed, but in a very good way.
Mirrors help us to make adjustments and make honest judgments about ourselves. But by standing too long in front of the mirror, we move beyond being a little self-absorbed and become fully self-centered which is counter to God's vision for our life.
The maturing Christian may use a mirror from time to time to be held accountable, but spend more time in front of a window. Windows allow us to see out and take notice of the world around us. Windows let us see the needs of those around us and open the opportunity to create new relationships.
Maturing Christians should become focused on others. That is what being a Christian helps us do. We leave the self-centered life and begin to care properly for others.
There are two types of relationships that a Christian should be developing: relationships with people inside the church and with people outside the church. Relationships inside the church help us to grow in faith and encourage others. It opens the door to help serve others because a trusting relationship develops.
10 Be devoted to each other like a loving family. Excel in showing respect for each other. Romans 12:10 (GW)
Relationships outside of the church should focus on developing relationships throughout your community. If you develop relationships with some that are outside the church, then do so without becoming condescending. People inside the church and outside the church have problems and no one person's problems are worse than the others. The difference should be seen in how we are overcoming our problems - through our relationship with Jesus!
So, are you looking at the mirror or looking through the window? Once you decide, ask someone you trust. Then you will understand if you are growing in your faith or not.
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